Tips for Mind Blowing Sex During Fasting/Ramazan
16/07/2019
The biggest missing point many couples or individuals have wrongly understood is the issue of having sex while fasting in the month of Ramazan or other during months. I have already proven in my earlier articles that you can masturbate and also have sex while fasting in the month of Ramazan or during other months. Most Muslims have been brainwashed in to thinking that masturbation is haram in Islam and they have been told that if you masturbate, your fasting is broken and invalid and you should make up the fast on another day. Some even go to interpret that you have to give Kaffara which is to fast two consecutive months, or to feed sixty poor people or to manumit a slave. Such harshness and extremism is also been applied for having sex as well and forgetting that such rules are only if the penis enters the vagina. None of these misunderstandings would occur if Muslims only stuck to the Quran and the authentic hadiths and stopped blind following Madhhabs and individuals. The view that sex or masturbation breaks the fast is based on a few hadiths. The hadiths are as follows.
“Abu Hurayrah (Rali) said: The Messenger of Allaah (Sal) said: “Every deed of the son of Adam will be given a ten-fold reward, up to seven hundred. Allaah says: ‘Except fasting, for it is for me, and I shall reward for it, for he gives up his desire and his food for my sake”
(Sahih Al Bukhari and Muslim) and in another hadith the prophet (Sal);
"Whoever does not give up forged speech and evil actions, Allah is not in need of his leaving his food and drink”. (Bukhari).
The word “desire” and evil deeds are used to come up with an opinion that sex or masturbation invalidates fasting. This argument is totally wrong because the word “desire” or evil actions” are speaking in general terms and not in specific terms. Desire could mean anything so does evil actions. Taking a word that is general and giving your own interpretation based on implications and assumptions are arguments that have no basis in Islam. The most important point to note is that there is no evidence from the Quran or the authentic Sunnah to prove that masturbation will break your sawm (Fast) and only intercourse when the man inserts his penis inside the vagina is what will invalidate the fast.
Narrated by Aisha (Rali), “The prophet (Sal) would do Mubaasharaah (having sexual relations) when he was Fasting, and would place a cloth between him and her, meaning over the private part.”
(Reported by Ahmad and Ibn Khuzaymah in his Saheeh. Its Isnad is Good (Jayyid)).
In another hadith,
“He (the Prophet, Sallallaahu alayhi wa Sallam) used to kiss when fasting, touch when fasting, and was the most in control of his desires”
(Sahih Al-Bukhari, Muslim, and others).
The above hadiths prove from the actions of the prophet (Sal) that having sexual relations during Ramazan is not haram except having intercourse by entering the penis in to the vagina. These hadiths prove clearly that doing anything other than sexual intercourse even if you ejaculate semen or other female secretion, would not invalidate the fast and there is no Kaffara for this. This is further strengthened with the below narration of Aisha (Rali) in response to someone who asked her:
“What is Halaal (permissible) for a man to do with his wife when he is fasting?”
She said, “Everything except intercourse.”
(This was reported by ‘Abdir-Razzaaq in his Musannaf (4 / 190/8439) with a Saheeh (authentic) chain).
The word “Mubaasharaah” in these hadiths are used to interpret that the meaning is to kiss.
This is a false argument because this is not the meaning as explained in the below hadith.
“If one of us was menstruating, and Allah’s Messenger (Sal) wanted to touch us (Mubaasharah), he would command her to wrap a cloth around her area of menstruation, then touch her. She then said, and who amongst you is capable of controlling his desires [like him]?”
(Sahih Al Bukhari and Muslim)
For a detailed explanation, please click the below links t read my articles
https://cjislam.weebly.com/why-masturbation-is-not-haram.html
https://cjislam.weebly.com/why-masturbating-istimna-while-fasting-is-halal.html
How to masturbate like a pro while fasting.
Masturbation is a a gift from Allah(Swt) and you can double control your desires if you masturbate while fasting. First. you will need a condom and one pillow. wear the condom and start thinking erotically. once your penis is erect, place the erect penis in the middle of the pillow and fold the pillow on it . Now start masturbating slowly and you this form of self pleasure is sometimes better than sexual intercourse because the soft pillow helps in more sensitivity of the penis. Yo can also not wear the condom depending on your likes or dislikes but the ejaculation is quick if a condom is not worn. For a girl or woman, you can fold the pillow and place it in between your thighs and press against the vagina and move it or you can use a rabbit vibrator which is the best selling female sex toy in the world. For males, the best selling sex toy is the "Fleshlight" and this is also a wonderful way to masturbate while fasting. There are many sex toys from pocket vibrators to dildos and if you don't have a sex toy the pillow method is the method that will give full pleasure that is even more pleasurable than having sex. Sex dolls can also be used for masturbation and there are many form like male sex dolls ,female sex dolls dolls to choose from. You can use simply your hands or fingers for masturbation and even fruits or vegetables like cucumbers or carrots can also be used. Masturbation can also be performed on the mouth and anus and sex toys like dildos or anal beads also can be used.
How to have mind blowing sex while fasting.
The first or one of the first step towards having sex with your other half is to start kissing. Narrated Hisham's father:
Aisha said, "Allah's Messenger (Sal) used to kiss some of his wives while he was fasting," and then she smiled.
(Sahih- Al-Bukhari)
Narrated by`Aisha (Rali):
The Prophet (Sal) used to kiss and embrace (his wives) while he was fasting, and he had more power to control his desires than any of you. (Muslim,Abu Dawud and others)
Said Jabir, Narrated `Aisha:
The Prophet (Sal) used to kiss and embrace (his wives) while he was fasting, and he had more power to control his desires than any of you. Said Jabir, "The person who gets discharge after casting a look (on his wife) should complete his fast."(Sahih-Al-Bukhari)
From these hadiths we can understand that the prophet (Sal) used to kiss his wives and embrace them. and Aisha (Rali) clearly mentioned that
"The person who gets discharge after casting a look (on his wife) should complete his fast."
proving further that sex is allowed while fasting.
Aisha (Rali) narrated: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, leaned forward to kiss me. I said, “I am fasting.” The Prophet said, “And I am fasting,” then he kissed me.
(Musnad Aḥmad-graded Sahih by Imam Arna'ut)
Zainab (Rali) narrated:
(daughter of Um Salama) that her mother said, "While I was (lying) with Allah's Messenger (Sal) underneath a woolen sheet, I got the menstruation, and then slipped away and put on the clothes (which I used to wear) in menses. He asked, "What is the matter? Did you get your menses?" I replied in the affirmative and then entered underneath that woolen sheet. I and Allah's Messenger (Sal) used to take a bath from one water pot and he used to kiss me while he was fasting."
(Bukhari)
All of these hadith prove that you can fondle and kiss your wives while fasting and even ejaculation won't break the fast. You can start kissing your wife and then slowly start fondling her. You can also have oral sex while fasting with out drinking any of the sexual juices. It is wise to approach your wife slowly and gently as in a hadith narrated by Jabir (Rali) in which the prophet (Sal) said,
"Slow down, and enter at night, so that she who has not combed may comb her hair, and she who has not shaved may shave her private area.’ Then he said to me, ‘When you enter upon her, then be wise and gentle."
(Bukhari and Muslim)
The other way to have mind blowing sex is to use various sex toys as using sex toys is not haram in Islam and by doing so both the husband and wife can enjoy themselves sexually while fasting. Sme Muslims who will read this article might be offended and would say that fasting is to do good deed and not to have sex or masturbation. My answer to this is that having sex is a form of charity hence a good deed. The prophet (Sal) said,
"Every tasbeehah (saying ‘Subhaan Allaah (Glory be to Allaah)’) is a charity. Every Takbeerah (saying ‘Allaahu akbar (Allaah is Most Great)’) is a charity. EveryTahmeedah (saying ‘al-hamdu-Lillaah (praise be to Allaah)’ is a charity. Every Tahleelah(saying ‘Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah (there is no god but Allaah)’) is a charity. Enjoining what is good is a charity. Forbidding what is evil is a charity. Having intercourse (with one’s wife) is a charity.” They said, “O Messenger of Allaah, if one of us fulfils his desire, is there reward in that?” He said, “Do you not see that if he does it in a haraam way he will have the burden of sin? So if he does it in a halaal way, he will have a reward for that.”
(Sahih-Muslim)
Let us get away from the unwanted puritanical extremism that has made a muslim's life less enjoyable and let us stick to the Sunnah or our beloved messenger (Sal) to make our live easy and wonderful.
The biggest missing point many couples or individuals have wrongly understood is the issue of having sex while fasting in the month of Ramazan or other during months. I have already proven in my earlier articles that you can masturbate and also have sex while fasting in the month of Ramazan or during other months. Most Muslims have been brainwashed in to thinking that masturbation is haram in Islam and they have been told that if you masturbate, your fasting is broken and invalid and you should make up the fast on another day. Some even go to interpret that you have to give Kaffara which is to fast two consecutive months, or to feed sixty poor people or to manumit a slave. Such harshness and extremism is also been applied for having sex as well and forgetting that such rules are only if the penis enters the vagina. None of these misunderstandings would occur if Muslims only stuck to the Quran and the authentic hadiths and stopped blind following Madhhabs and individuals. The view that sex or masturbation breaks the fast is based on a few hadiths. The hadiths are as follows.
“Abu Hurayrah (Rali) said: The Messenger of Allaah (Sal) said: “Every deed of the son of Adam will be given a ten-fold reward, up to seven hundred. Allaah says: ‘Except fasting, for it is for me, and I shall reward for it, for he gives up his desire and his food for my sake”
(Sahih Al Bukhari and Muslim) and in another hadith the prophet (Sal);
"Whoever does not give up forged speech and evil actions, Allah is not in need of his leaving his food and drink”. (Bukhari).
The word “desire” and evil deeds are used to come up with an opinion that sex or masturbation invalidates fasting. This argument is totally wrong because the word “desire” or evil actions” are speaking in general terms and not in specific terms. Desire could mean anything so does evil actions. Taking a word that is general and giving your own interpretation based on implications and assumptions are arguments that have no basis in Islam. The most important point to note is that there is no evidence from the Quran or the authentic Sunnah to prove that masturbation will break your sawm (Fast) and only intercourse when the man inserts his penis inside the vagina is what will invalidate the fast.
Narrated by Aisha (Rali), “The prophet (Sal) would do Mubaasharaah (having sexual relations) when he was Fasting, and would place a cloth between him and her, meaning over the private part.”
(Reported by Ahmad and Ibn Khuzaymah in his Saheeh. Its Isnad is Good (Jayyid)).
In another hadith,
“He (the Prophet, Sallallaahu alayhi wa Sallam) used to kiss when fasting, touch when fasting, and was the most in control of his desires”
(Sahih Al-Bukhari, Muslim, and others).
The above hadiths prove from the actions of the prophet (Sal) that having sexual relations during Ramazan is not haram except having intercourse by entering the penis in to the vagina. These hadiths prove clearly that doing anything other than sexual intercourse even if you ejaculate semen or other female secretion, would not invalidate the fast and there is no Kaffara for this. This is further strengthened with the below narration of Aisha (Rali) in response to someone who asked her:
“What is Halaal (permissible) for a man to do with his wife when he is fasting?”
She said, “Everything except intercourse.”
(This was reported by ‘Abdir-Razzaaq in his Musannaf (4 / 190/8439) with a Saheeh (authentic) chain).
The word “Mubaasharaah” in these hadiths are used to interpret that the meaning is to kiss.
This is a false argument because this is not the meaning as explained in the below hadith.
“If one of us was menstruating, and Allah’s Messenger (Sal) wanted to touch us (Mubaasharah), he would command her to wrap a cloth around her area of menstruation, then touch her. She then said, and who amongst you is capable of controlling his desires [like him]?”
(Sahih Al Bukhari and Muslim)
For a detailed explanation, please click the below links t read my articles
https://cjislam.weebly.com/why-masturbation-is-not-haram.html
https://cjislam.weebly.com/why-masturbating-istimna-while-fasting-is-halal.html
How to masturbate like a pro while fasting.
Masturbation is a a gift from Allah(Swt) and you can double control your desires if you masturbate while fasting. First. you will need a condom and one pillow. wear the condom and start thinking erotically. once your penis is erect, place the erect penis in the middle of the pillow and fold the pillow on it . Now start masturbating slowly and you this form of self pleasure is sometimes better than sexual intercourse because the soft pillow helps in more sensitivity of the penis. Yo can also not wear the condom depending on your likes or dislikes but the ejaculation is quick if a condom is not worn. For a girl or woman, you can fold the pillow and place it in between your thighs and press against the vagina and move it or you can use a rabbit vibrator which is the best selling female sex toy in the world. For males, the best selling sex toy is the "Fleshlight" and this is also a wonderful way to masturbate while fasting. There are many sex toys from pocket vibrators to dildos and if you don't have a sex toy the pillow method is the method that will give full pleasure that is even more pleasurable than having sex. Sex dolls can also be used for masturbation and there are many form like male sex dolls ,female sex dolls dolls to choose from. You can use simply your hands or fingers for masturbation and even fruits or vegetables like cucumbers or carrots can also be used. Masturbation can also be performed on the mouth and anus and sex toys like dildos or anal beads also can be used.
How to have mind blowing sex while fasting.
The first or one of the first step towards having sex with your other half is to start kissing. Narrated Hisham's father:
Aisha said, "Allah's Messenger (Sal) used to kiss some of his wives while he was fasting," and then she smiled.
(Sahih- Al-Bukhari)
Narrated by`Aisha (Rali):
The Prophet (Sal) used to kiss and embrace (his wives) while he was fasting, and he had more power to control his desires than any of you. (Muslim,Abu Dawud and others)
Said Jabir, Narrated `Aisha:
The Prophet (Sal) used to kiss and embrace (his wives) while he was fasting, and he had more power to control his desires than any of you. Said Jabir, "The person who gets discharge after casting a look (on his wife) should complete his fast."(Sahih-Al-Bukhari)
From these hadiths we can understand that the prophet (Sal) used to kiss his wives and embrace them. and Aisha (Rali) clearly mentioned that
"The person who gets discharge after casting a look (on his wife) should complete his fast."
proving further that sex is allowed while fasting.
Aisha (Rali) narrated: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, leaned forward to kiss me. I said, “I am fasting.” The Prophet said, “And I am fasting,” then he kissed me.
(Musnad Aḥmad-graded Sahih by Imam Arna'ut)
Zainab (Rali) narrated:
(daughter of Um Salama) that her mother said, "While I was (lying) with Allah's Messenger (Sal) underneath a woolen sheet, I got the menstruation, and then slipped away and put on the clothes (which I used to wear) in menses. He asked, "What is the matter? Did you get your menses?" I replied in the affirmative and then entered underneath that woolen sheet. I and Allah's Messenger (Sal) used to take a bath from one water pot and he used to kiss me while he was fasting."
(Bukhari)
All of these hadith prove that you can fondle and kiss your wives while fasting and even ejaculation won't break the fast. You can start kissing your wife and then slowly start fondling her. You can also have oral sex while fasting with out drinking any of the sexual juices. It is wise to approach your wife slowly and gently as in a hadith narrated by Jabir (Rali) in which the prophet (Sal) said,
"Slow down, and enter at night, so that she who has not combed may comb her hair, and she who has not shaved may shave her private area.’ Then he said to me, ‘When you enter upon her, then be wise and gentle."
(Bukhari and Muslim)
The other way to have mind blowing sex is to use various sex toys as using sex toys is not haram in Islam and by doing so both the husband and wife can enjoy themselves sexually while fasting. Sme Muslims who will read this article might be offended and would say that fasting is to do good deed and not to have sex or masturbation. My answer to this is that having sex is a form of charity hence a good deed. The prophet (Sal) said,
"Every tasbeehah (saying ‘Subhaan Allaah (Glory be to Allaah)’) is a charity. Every Takbeerah (saying ‘Allaahu akbar (Allaah is Most Great)’) is a charity. EveryTahmeedah (saying ‘al-hamdu-Lillaah (praise be to Allaah)’ is a charity. Every Tahleelah(saying ‘Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah (there is no god but Allaah)’) is a charity. Enjoining what is good is a charity. Forbidding what is evil is a charity. Having intercourse (with one’s wife) is a charity.” They said, “O Messenger of Allaah, if one of us fulfils his desire, is there reward in that?” He said, “Do you not see that if he does it in a haraam way he will have the burden of sin? So if he does it in a halaal way, he will have a reward for that.”
(Sahih-Muslim)
Let us get away from the unwanted puritanical extremism that has made a muslim's life less enjoyable and let us stick to the Sunnah or our beloved messenger (Sal) to make our live easy and wonderful.